Thursday, October 25, 2012

Looking For Advice from other expecting & non-expecting mom's!!!

Well I'm not sure if I'm 34 weeks now or 35 weeks since I measured a week a head of schedule on my 33rd week! They aren't sure if they are moving my due date up either!

Well on Tuesday I had a physical with my Primary Care Physician which was a complete waste of my time and theirs, I'm pregnant and already got my flu shot at my last OB-GYN appointment... and there wasn't any way I was gonna let her do a pap-smear on me when she clearly hasn't a clue to consideration as to the fact she knew I was pregnant told them I needed a appointment and then tells me after I'm there that I didn't need one... seriously! WTF


But that's not why I'm blogging!

On 10.24.2012 I experienced on again off again pain but cramps majority of the day that didn't seem bad until 2pm when they really kicked in... I tried eating but that seemed to make it a whole heck of a lot worse! To the point I was almost in tears so I rested until my 3:45 WIC appointment ... that seriously was stupid and a total waste of time yet again! So once I got out of my appointment at 4pm on the dot I called my OB-GYN office, explained what was going on and how I was concerned with it... I gave them my NUMBER that I COULD be reached at since I wasn't home yet... I waited an HOUR for a return call to find out they obviously didn't read the note fully since they called my house where I wasn't and left a message for me but the message started out with Hi EMILY, well first off my name isn't EMILY it's AMANDA! second of all why did you catch that mistake at the end of the message instead of the beginning... and then treat me like an retard when I called you back after an hour of being in pain! To tell me to eat... yes I'm gonna attempt to eat when it already upsets my body and makes the pain worse! Yup smart thinking... then lay down... yup I tried that it's hard when I can't lay on my back or either of my sides cause it upsets the baby... obviously somethings wrong... well yes the baby is moving that's how I know he's uncomfortable with the way I'm laying, so yes all try you silly steps because apparently you feel nothings wrong... yet I suffered the whole night was tempted to call at 10pm but really didn't want to go thew the last experience I had were you practically thought I was making shit up... when I'm practically in tears over the phone with you cause I'm in pain. Yup real concern there... makes me sad when I talk highly of your practice and it only takes a few staff members to make you feel like utter crap. To the point that you don't want to call again for help. So after getting about 2 hours of sleep... and after eating yet again today ... and experiencing the same pain that seems to get worse when I eat... I'm not sure if I should wait till my next OB-GYN appointment or if I should of course call and pressure them to check me... because not only was experiencing that but I was experiencing some SHARP PAIN in my vaginal area... like a stabbing feeling that would have me double over in pain if I was standing and curl up in a ball if laying down... so yeah ... I think somethings wrong and they just keep telling me I'm fine... so what would you do if you were in my shoes?!


Should I call again today...?! or wait until my next appointment on 10.31.12 and pray that it's nothing serious?! I just don't know what to do and with them making me feel like an utter fool yesterday it makes me just want to give up... but being a mother to two boys I can't and WON'T give up that's why I'm seeking advice from people...

1 comment:

  1. Well since I'm still weary about calling my damn OB-GYN office I put it off a whole day (which brings us to today) still in pain, mild cramps and yeah a killer migraine and stiff calf muscle that just won't ease up... yup I gotta love the fact that one office and two workers can make it so one person never wants to call and seek advice... ain't this lovely!

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